Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Home found (we think)
Monday, December 14, 2009
Meaning in Relationship
“Because meaning is formed in relationships within the family system and in individual interactions within that system, sustained effort in conscientious relationship to the child can allow the parent or caregiver to access greater trust, to engage the process of self-inquiry, and to make new meaning throughout life in relationship to the context of his or her world. The results of my research have revealed that deep involvement with the children in our lives can break open the parents’ hearts to greater well-being and self-awareness.” (Josette Luvmour, 2008)
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Life gets away
Rest asured that the project is still very much alive and well. We are working hard with this building partner to get a space deal together - hoping I will be able to reveal the actual place soon. Fund raising is slow and steady which makes sense given the economy. I am reading a great book called The Common Vision - Parenting and Educating for Wholeness about the educational philosophies of Steiner, Aurabindo and Inayat Khan. It is amazing to me that what these guys have been saying has been around for so long (since the early 1900s) and it had no taken stronger hold on the way that the masses conceive of education. I know that there is an evolution to shifts in thinking, and that some people are just ahead of the curve, but come on people - 100 years! Hell, Ba and Josette have been writing about this for 25 years and it is still a struggle at times to find people who can truely "dig it" if you catch my drift. But hey, I am not letting it stop me, watch out, make way, let's create a revolution! One... small... step... at... a... time.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Catch up
It has been a while, so many things have happened. The biggest news is that we have come very close to finding a location. I can not yet reveal more as the deal is not done, so the speak, but it looks very positive. I can however say that is means that we will be on schedule for a fall of 2010 opening date. So for all you Natural Learning Rhythms fans out there, it looks like it is going to happen! The building is in SE Portland. Okay, really can’t say more now.
Monday, October 12, 2009
Feeling good
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Amanda Blake Soule – The Creative Family
NLR Seal of Approval: Yes
What it has to offer: Really beautiful photos of children and interesting craft ideas for the whole family. Her book The Creative Family is beautifully written and expresses ways of viewing creativity in our children and ourselves in a simple and profound way.
The NLR breakdown: For BodyBeings (0-7) lots of great ideas for family crafts, sensory based exploration and supplies – definitely read The Creative Family.
For FeelingBeings (8-12) Nature, nature, nature! Need I say more, Amanda Soule offers many ways to explore nature and nurture adventure and creative exploration – wonderful.
For IdealBeing (13-18) she is obviously not there yet with any of her four children, so I can’t really comment here.
Details: Read The Creative Family http://www.soulemama.com/the_creative_family/ and check out her blog too.
Website: www.soulemama.com
Friday, October 2, 2009
Wildwood Recreation Site
What it has to offer: Everything. Hiking, swimming, fishing, fish viewing (more on this later), sandy beaches, picnic tables, bathrooms complete with warm running water, foot bridges and wetland viewing platforms, oh, and a playground. The Wildwood Recreation site is totally worth the short drive from Portland. The park is clean and remarkably well laid out. With paved, boardwalk and gravel “hiking” trails that my 3 year old loved, you can’t go wrong. There are numerable picnic tables along the way as the trail follows the wild and scenic Salmon River. In the fall be sure to catch the salmon spawning, but if you miss that don’t worry there is an underground viewing station where you can see the baby fish and snails and crawdads. It is heaven for a nature loving family, truly.
The NLR breakdown: For BodyBeings (0-7) you have the basically flat walking trails, sandy beaches where they can wade into the water and throw rocks, high wooden bridges crossing the river, and the underwater viewing station, sensations galore. It is the perfect place to spend hours and hours in a safe, fun and rich natural environment.
For FeelingBeings (8-12) this place has any number of lessons in nature just waiting for exploration. There is a whole series of wetland trails where you can observe from different viewing platforms and walk on raised boardwalk trails. Go in the spring or fall and catch the migrating Salmon as they head up or down the beautiful Salmon River. There is much to learn about the cycles of life at this place not to mention the feelings of awe just to be near the beautiful river.
For IdealBeing (13-18) there is a much more serious hike up to a nearby ridge that offers a good challenge and I even saw something about over night hikers, so perhaps there are backpacking opportunities. With a little planning this could be a jump off place for some serious adventuring.
Details: Open 3/15 – 11/30; $5 per car
Location: about 45 minutes drive; 40 miles east of Portland, off US Highway 26, just past the 39 mile marker.
Website: http://www.blm.gov/or/resources/recreation/site_info.php?siteid=221
Brochure: In PDF http://www.blm.gov/or/resources/recreation/files/brochures/Wildwood_brochure07.pdf
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
The NLR It List
I would like to introduce a new concept to my blog; the Natural Learning Rhythms seal of approval. You will begin to see posts added about Natural Learning Rhythms approved items (books, toys, etc.), places (parks, restaurants, etc.) and maybe even a few people. I have worked with Natural Learning Rhythms for over 15 years and have in that time become intimately aware of what works and what doesn’t, what is supportive to a child’s development and what is detrimental. In these posts I will mostly focus on things that work and are supportive, but you may also get a few negative reviews because I might not be able to resist.
I have lived in Portland for six years and I have come to use several different websites to find fun family friendly activities around the area. And I have this incredible knowledge about what children need to support their optimal development. So why not create such a site myself? Actually to be perfectly honest the idea is not solely my own, Ba suggested that I create such a list as well. So here is how it will work: I will write posts every now and then about people, places or things that I come across and I will review them from a developmental perspective using Natural Learning Rhythms as the guide. The the person, place or thing will either get the seal of approval or it won’t (I will try and create a little icon so that you can know with one quick glance if it made the “It” list or not). All posts will be labeled “The NLR It List” so that you can easily search for them and see all the posts in one place.
I will try and explain in detail why a person, place or thing got the seal or didn’t, so that you can begin to understand Natural Learning Rhythms and how it can be applied. If you have persons, places or things you would like me to review, write a comment to that effect and I will try and work them in. I will never review something unless I have a personal experience of it/them. Also if you disagree with my review, please also feel free to post, I invite your feedback. This is going to be fun!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Fundraising
If I have not stated this before, can I just say that this venture is pushing me to the limits of and beyond my comfort zone in so many ways. Asking people for money is not something I feel particularly comfortable doing. But I can see that if I am going to be successful in creating this educational expression, I am going to have to get comfortable with it.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Marketing with Owen Jones
Sorry it has been so long since I posted, been busy waiting for some things to fall into place. The board has approved Owen Jones. This is fantastic news; it means that we are all seeing the same picture. We have to have a marketing approach and Owen Jones’ view of what we need in order to get this thing up and running is so right on it gives me goosebumps. As some of you may have figured out by now, I am not in this venture alone. This blog is my journey, but I am privileged to be part of a group of committed individuals all working with EnCompass (www.EnCompassInstitute.org). Okay, back to Owen Jones. They are a local creative marketing firm, emphasis on the creative part. As their principle, Rusty, likes to say, the first thing they have to do is fall in love with our organization. Once they have done that, then they can really go to work, creating a rebranding experience that will translate our vision to the community.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
A building update
I wanted to write a quick update on the building situation. Last week I spent more than my share of hours looking into the building that I wrote about in the North Pearl district. I talked with PDC (Portland Development Commission), the city, the owner rep, and the architects. It was quite a week. What I found out from the city is that in order to have a school in any building, it has to have an ‘E’ use classification, this refers to the building code and what the building has to have in terms of fire safety, ADA, seismic rating, etc. The Pearl building currently has an F and S use. What I found out from the architects is that this particular building has non-reinforced concrete walls, which means that in order to bring the building up to an E use, we have to seismically upgrade the building’s walls. What does that mean to us? $750,000.00 worth of rebar and concrete reconstruction of the building’s exiting walls, apparently. Needless to say this made my heart sink; perhaps this building would not work for us after all.
PDC also has granting programs. For example we can apply for a grant to make “storefront improvements” to make the building look pretty on the outside (doesn’t really help us). Or they also have a DOC program which gives money to help with the design and concept development of a redevelopment project. That could be useful. However, this building sits in the River District Urban Renewal Area and apparently there is a “cloud” over the funding for this district and these grants would only be available to us if we applied and for them by the end of October! Strike three. All this seems to make it not really worth the effort given the whole scope of what needs to be done to this building in order to bring it up to snuff for our use. Three strikes, you know what that means, the search continues…
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Sensation at Kaiser
Yesterday I had to take my baby to her 2month well baby visit at Kaiser. This is generally not a pleasant experience for me. I find that the medical establishment is not sensitive to the development of children in general. And I see that medical establishment as embodying most of the confusion and misunderstanding that the world has about how children grow and learn, and what well being is really all about for the family. But then this happened…
Friday, August 28, 2009
The edge of the Pearl
Went to see a building this week, right on the edge of the Pearl District. Bummers: it is right by the 405 freeway so there is a lot of traffic noise, it has no current green space, the windows don’t open, it is currently listed with a $5mil price tag. Greatnesses: It is right on the street car line making field trips with the kids an easy fun thing, it is the perfect amount of space at 10,000sqft a floor and 2 floors, the ceilings are nice and high, it is relatively open inside with tons of natural light, it sits in an area of Portland where the PDC would love to see a school (according to an unofficial source the mayor would welcome a school in the area and there would be funds available to make the building what it needs to be for a school’s use – in other words we would not have to fight the city, we would have their support), it has a parking lot, it has an LA fitness right across the street that might be willing to share facilities with us, there is a new park that is going in 2 blocks away, and the BEST part is that the owners of the building want to see us in there and are very excited to keep the building what it is instead of changing it into a glass and concrete tower like so many other buildings in the Pearl.
Monday, August 24, 2009
Quick note about zoning and use
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Asphalt and Education
The other day as I was driving home from a trip to Sauvie Island it struck me. It happened just as my car went from the loud familiar whirr of the freeway to the sudden silence of new asphalt. Thank you stimulus package and president Obama. Let me first state that I am/was an Obama supporter – I have the women for Obama t-shirt which I proudly wore during his campaign. However, as I was saying when my car was suddenly quietly purring down the newly paved highway, I realized that the money paving this road could have gone elsewhere. Like say, oh, education. Let’s see education or asphalt, hmmm… Why did my president pick asphalt? When you put the two next to each other there seems very little contest, support the precious minds of the next generation, or the rubber tires of our gas guzzling “freedom” boxes.
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Map a home
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Well-Being for all
This morning I was perusing some sites I frequent (see list to the right) and I read this on one of them, “…[a] state of mind in which you're willing to allow Well-Being into your experience no matter what the conditions. To me, Well-Being is an ever-present, always available resource. You don't need to earn it, you just have to let it in! Children are naturally allowing in this way, but over time they learn to disallow the experience of Well-Being under certain conditions. Our cultural values are conditional: we grew up learning that happiness has to be earned. Conventional schooling is a major factor in the formation of the conditional worldview and the habit of disallowing Well-Being.” http://www.enjoyparenting.com/hem-interview
In the Educational Opportunity (EO) that I am creating, my focus in terms of curriculum will be focused on Well-Being. I think it is so important to nurture and feed that in children instead of making it something they have to earn. I say death to gold stars and A’s and oh yeah to the celebration of the greatness that lives in all children (and in ourselves)!
Monday, August 10, 2009
Rites of Passage
This last weekend my dad, Ba (www.luvmourconsulting.com), went to Ashland to teach a group of FeelingBeing boys and their mentors (www.boystomensouthernoregon.org) how to use Natural Learning Rhythms in Rites of Passage for 9-12 year old boys. [For more on Natural Learning Rhythms and BodyBeing, FeelingBeing, IdealBeing and ReasonableBeing go to www.EnCompassInstitute.org and look for the first three chapters of the book Ba and I are writing coming soon to this blog.]
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Marketing
This is an interesting notion. What the heck is marketing anyway? For me it is this thing that I know is necessary, but that I just don’t understand and it always seems to be just out of reach. Or maybe a better way to say it… it seems like it is always just three steps beyond the edge of my universe. However, for this educational venture I am sure it will be necessary.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
A physical home
One of my main jobs at the moment is to find a physical place for this educational expression to coalesce. This is harder than it sounds. There are many considerations and so many cool places in Portland. After creating a list of criteria, we find possible buildings. But more importantly I open myself to a space when I tour a building. I let myself imagine children in the space, how would they flow through it? How would the space influence them and how would they influence it? Are there opportunities for learning built into it? Are there nooks and crannies – places like I used to find in the Buckeye trees of our backyard when I was a kid.
Monday, August 3, 2009
In the beginning...
What was it that Groucho Marx said, “I was born at a very young age”? That is about how we all begin, naked, vulnerable and brand new. And then we grow and develop in response to our own inherent greatness and in relationship to our environments, physical, emotional and psychological. I was brought up in a non-traditional household and I developed ideas and ideals about the world, my role in it and what kind of parent I would be when I “grew up”.
Well, then I had two children of my own and I have begun to see that so many of those ideas and ideals are not in fact mine, or perhaps it is more accurate to say that development never stops. I am developing in this very moment, as these words flow out through my hands, my perspectives and ideas about things are changing in response to what I experience, who I am in the world and how I perceive myself.
When I gave birth to my second child, two months ago, my life changed forever. Not in some dramatic way, but in the simplest everyday type of way that just creeps in and takes over, like blackberry vines in your garden. A certain urgency to get on with my life, to find out what I will be when I “grow up” is one persistent tendril. Being the observant person that I am, I recognized that shift and plan to keep close track of it and you can too as you read along. So why is this taking the form of creating an educational opportunity for my children? I know that my children (now 3 ½ ad 2 months) will grow up much faster than originally anticipated and will need an education along the way. However, the options that are out there, are for the most part scary, unappealing, frightening… the adjectives could keep coming, but you get the idea. The two dove tail nicely I think, my need to find my vocation and the need my children have for an education.
So what qualifies me? Well, first I am a mom and every mother no matter her background is an educator (fathers too). Second, I have spent the last 15 years working with a non-profit who’s mission is the well-being of children and families. For more about that read here, www.EnCompassInstitute.org. The truth is I have to send my kids to school and I don’t like my options and I think I (and the people I work with) can do better. So follow this blog if you are a mother, an educator, a politician, a grandparent, an uncle, a brother, a sister, follow this blog if you are human and have children in your life. Follow along with me as I fumble my way through the starting of an educational opportunity for my children and the children of this community. Hopefully we will all learn something in the process and with any amount of luck the ripples of where this journey leads will be felt throughout the world.
